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Some of the specific challenges I identified were: So I founded Practical Its purpose: to instigate a national conversation about how to make courtship more practical. Then couples who did get married through courtship started getting divorced.She went on to explain that there used to be a linguistic differentiation between “dating” and “going steady”.“Going steady” meant you were going out with the same person multiple times in a row.Visits and comments poured in from all over the country about how to make courtship work and why it did not work. I’m talking the kind of couples who first kissed at their wedding were filing for divorce. The deal was that if we put up with the rules and awkwardness of courtship now we could avoid the pain of divorce later.Each year I waited for courtship to start working and for my homeschool friends to start getting married. The whole point of courtship was to have a happy marriage, not a high divorce rate. I grew up as a member of the homeschool community back when we were hiding from the cops and getting our textbooks from public school dumpsters.
She went on to explain that by the time she graduated from high school, she had gone out on dates with over 20 different guys.
This is different from my generation, which is encouraged to “wait until you are ready to get married” before pursuing a romantic relationship.